Shadow Work in Therapy: Exploring the Hidden Parts of Yourself
hypnotherapy, anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC hypnotherapy, anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Shadow Work in Therapy: Exploring the Hidden Parts of Yourself

Hypnotherapy allows you to access the subconscious mind to address issues like anxiety, stress, and negative thought patterns. By guiding you into deep relaxation, you can get to the root of unhelpful behaviors and create lasting change. With the support of a hypnotherapist, you can improve emotional resilience, enhance sleep quality, and strengthen the mind-body connection, ultimately leading to greater clarity, balance, and empowerment in your life.

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7 Powerful Ways to Reparent Your Inner Child and Build Self-Worth
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7 Powerful Ways to Reparent Your Inner Child and Build Self-Worth

Reparenting your inner child allows you to heal emotional wounds from childhood by providing the care, compassion, and support you may not have received. Through practices like self-compassion, engaging in creative activities, and seeking therapy, you can nurture a healthier, loving relationship with yourself.

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The Power of Intentions Over New Year’s Resolutions
anxiety, depression, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, depression, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Power of Intentions Over New Year’s Resolutions

New Year’s resolutions often fail because they focus on rigid outcomes, leaving little room for life’s unpredictability. Intentions align your daily actions with your values, supporting sustainable habits over time. Focusing on your intentions allows you to make progress without the pressure of perfection.

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Managing Political Conversations and Stress Over the Holidays
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Managing Political Conversations and Stress Over the Holidays

Managing family dynamics during the holidays can be especially challenging after an election, when political discussions may surface. Strategies for setting boundaries, navigating disagreements, and prioritizing emotional well-being can help create a more balanced and peaceful season.

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Why Is My Inner Child So Angry? Understanding and Healing the Roots of Childhood Anger
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Why Is My Inner Child So Angry? Understanding and Healing the Roots of Childhood Anger

Inner child healing is crucial because it illuminates how specific childhood experiences can deeply influence adult anger. This blog discusses how unresolved childhood wounds, ranging from emotional neglect to trauma, can manifest as persistent anger in adulthood. Read more to learn about actionable healing activities such as journaling and creative play, alongside therapeutic methods like hypnotherapy and CBT, aimed at addressing and resolving these underlying issues.

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The Fear of Being Seen: Understanding and Healing for Overachievers and People-Pleasers
trauma, anxiety Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC trauma, anxiety Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Fear of Being Seen: Understanding and Healing for Overachievers and People-Pleasers

Overachievers and people-pleasers often face a hidden challenge: the fear of being seen. Rooted in past traumas such as emotional neglect, critical parenting, and bullying, this fear is intensified by limiting beliefs and societal pressures, hindering personal and professional growth. This blog explores the origins and effects of this fear, revealing how it manifests in procrastination, avoidance, overworking, and social withdrawal. Additionally, it offers solutions to combat anxiety, emphasizing the importance of self-worth, boundary-setting, and seeking support from one's community.

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Practical Coping Skills for Dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Trauma
anxiety, grief, trauma, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, grief, trauma, depression Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Practical Coping Skills for Dealing with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Trauma

Coping skills encompass a variety of strategies and techniques aimed at effectively handling anxiety, depression, and other complex emotions. They are essential in navigating tough circumstances, understanding our emotions, and nurturing our mental well-being. It's crucial to recognize that coping skills come in various forms—some beneficial and adaptive, while others may prove detrimental or maladaptive.

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The Psychology of People-Pleasing: Causes and Strategies for Overcoming Approval-Seeking Behavior
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Psychology of People-Pleasing: Causes and Strategies for Overcoming Approval-Seeking Behavior

Do you find yourself saying yes to things you don't want to do, just to please others? Do you have a hard time setting boundaries or saying no? If so, you might be a people-pleaser. While being considerate of others is a positive trait, people-pleasing can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and a lack of self-care. In this blog post, we'll explore the causes of people-pleasing and provide strategies for how to overcome this habit and prioritize your own needs.

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Don't Let Them Dim Your Light: Understanding Gaslighting and How to Break Free
trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Don't Let Them Dim Your Light: Understanding Gaslighting and How to Break Free

In this article, we will explore the damaging effects of gaslighting, a subtle form of emotional abuse. Learn practical strategies for identifying and managing gaslighting, as well as tips for building self-awareness and regaining a sense of power and control. Don't let gaslighters dim your light - it's time to break free.

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Myths About Mental Health Therapy
anxiety, depression, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, depression, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

Myths About Mental Health Therapy

Many misconceptions regarding therapy continue to exist. These myths and resulting stigma about mental health can be powerful enough to prevent people from seeking help altogether.

Learn more about some common myths around therapy and how they can be dispelled by taking a deeper look at what it means to see a therapist—and why it's worth it.

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6 Daily Habits to Ease Anxiety
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

6 Daily Habits to Ease Anxiety

Anxiety: the seemingly unconquerable feeling of being out of control. It creeps into every aspect of your life and feels debilitating. The good news is that not all hope is lost: you can live a life that isn’t ruled by worry. Here are six habits you can adopt to relieve anxiety and feel more in control of your life.

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The Professional People-Pleaser: How to Set Boundaries at Work
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

The Professional People-Pleaser: How to Set Boundaries at Work

People-pleasing, while well-intentioned, can sometimes lead to self-doubt and anxiety, especially in a work setting. Recognize if you relate to behaviors like overcommitting, fearing disapproval, or overworking yourself. Setting boundaries may feel daunting, but it's vital to protect your time and well-being. Challenge unhelpful thoughts, be mindful of people-pleasing habits, communicate your boundaries clearly, and consider seeking therapy for guidance in breaking free from these patterns.

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6 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing
anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

6 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing

Excessive people-pleasing, often stemming from anxiety, can erode self-esteem and strain relationships. Recognize signs like fear of disappointment and neglecting your own needs. Combat this pattern by setting boundaries, fostering self-worth, embracing discomfort, and seeking professional support.

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8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression
depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC depression, trauma, grief Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

8 Ways to Manage Seasonal Depression

Seasonal depression, also known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), can cast a shadow on the changing seasons. As days get shorter, energy levels can plummet, leaving us sad, disinterested, and socially withdrawn. But there's hope. From staying active and connecting with support systems to considering light therapy and therapy, you can brighten your winter days and find the light even in the midst of the winter blues.

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4 Steps to Set Boundaries in Relationships
anxiety, trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC anxiety, trauma, couples Lillian "Nikki" Hurley-Hines, MA, LPC, LMHC

4 Steps to Set Boundaries in Relationships

Creating boundaries is vital for maintaining healthy relationships and safeguarding our mental and physical well-being. These limits define how others should treat us and how we respond when they're crossed. While the list is not exhaustive, boundaries can be set in areas like personal space, time, emotions, possessions, beliefs, politics, and religion. Setting boundaries enhances self-esteem, self-respect, and assertive communication, and preserves mental and emotional energy. If you need help with setting and maintaining boundaries, reach out to me today for support.

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